Ladies do u hav time to help me with this one...from a female point of view whats the deal here? THANKS?

ok so me and my ex got together yesterday cuz we havent chilled together for a long time and we dated for 4 years and she's dating someone else but yesterday she started to kinda cry and told me that she cries more now then when we first broke up and that she does wana be with me but i'm always thinking of her and i know she thinks of me 2...even her family says that when we hang out she comes home happy and not b!tchy and with her now b/f she comes home all grumpy ( most of the time) well she talked alot about what it would be like if we got back together ( i wasnt goin 2 bring up the relationship but she did so i just fallowed her lead, didnt press anything) and at the end of our "date" i told her that its messed up that we both want to be together but arent then we walked inside and she asked me to repeat what i said cuz she didnt hear me and i told her to just forget it...and we said bye and we' made plans to chill again on wednesday ( and she said that eveything that i know that