Help dealing with bi-polar (cracker jack box) Mil?

I would act as if the confrontations and digs are a game I do not play. smile, say I don't understand what you mean, and walk away. It's kind of like playing dumb. There are a lot of fruit loops in my dads side of the family, and they caused my mother no end of trouble. One of them actually apologized before she died. It's so sad that people waste their lives playing mean games.