What kind of hair products should i use?

my hair is naturally red, is fine and straight, and tends to get greasy if i don't wash it every other day, but gets too dry if i wash it every day. i've been using herbal essence on my hair, and i've tried so many of their products to try to help my hair. i've tried dangerously straight, tousle me softly, long term relationship, drama clean, hello hydration, and the self targeting hyrdalicious. help.